A Day in the Life
It’s seven o’clock and Tierkidi refugee-camp is buzzling of early morning activity. It’s food distribution day, and Nyaboth (16) is patiently waiting for the queue in front of her to get smaller.
No one knows the exact number of refugees in the Gambell-region. But we are at least looking at 250.000. More than a quarter of a million people who are dependent on the food that World Food Program is distributing.
The line is moving slow, but Nyaboth isn’t in a hurry as long as she gets what she came for. Four hours later, she has collected all the items her family is entitled to this month. The previous four hours were more boring than exhausting. Now the tough part comes. The 16-year old has to get 150 kilos of flour, maize, oil, lentils and soap back to her tent a couple of kilometres away.
−I have to sell some of the flour to pay for a wheelbarrow to get everything safely back to my tent, she explains and wanders off to a local retailer. Two kilos for 20 birr ($1), the price will be almost double when the flour is sold again, but the guy who buys rations from the refugees knows he can squeeze them hard as he is their only source of cash.
Nyaboth gets a hand from her sister in law to carry the food over to the boys with the wheelbarrow. It is noon when she finally can unload outside tent #B-B6-H19, where she lives with her mother, an elder brother and a younger sister. Her brother, Nhial (18) asks her what took her so long. He is starving. Nyaboth smiles patiently and lights the fire to start cooking porridge. When everyone has eaten, she cleans the pan, the spoons and the plates before she gets up again. It’s time to fetch some more firewood. We follow her to the bush and watch her as she collects enough twigs and branches to cook her family dinner this evening.
We expect her to sit down for a second when she drops the firewood in front of the tent, but instead she picks up the yellow jerry can and wanders of. An hour later, she returns with the jerry can full of water. Happy that there are no duties before she has to start cooking dinner, in half an hour or so.
−How come you do all the hard work with no help from your brother?
−Everything I have done today has been women’s work.
−So what is men’s work?
Nyaboth smiles before she answers.
−Sitting. Back home they looked after the cattle, but here there are no animals, leaving the men with no other duties than sitting and talking.
Text: Øystein Mikalsen
Photo: Otto von Münchow
January 15, 2015 at 17:27
[…] Nyaboth (16) is working hard every day in Tierkidi refugee-camp near the border of South Sudan. We followed her a day and you can read and see how it unfolds on the latest post on Untold Stories. […]
January 15, 2015 at 19:11
Ok, yes, this drives me crazy.
January 15, 2015 at 21:39
This breaks my heart. I know the futility of judging a culture that I don’t understand, but clinging to the concept of women’s work vs. men’s work under such circumstances seems so senseless. Couldn’t everyone working together makes things better for all?
January 15, 2015 at 21:52
Isn’t it tragic that people who have so much less can be so much happier? That said, it is not right or fair to let people suffer because we have much more….. relatively speaking.
January 16, 2015 at 00:36
Such a hard life and the repetition of chores must be boring, although I daresay I can (in one way) appreciate some of it. When I was her age I had to do all the ‘female’ chores and I don’t remember my brothers doing a single thing.
Are there any sort of schooling or educational opportunities in the camps?
January 16, 2015 at 05:08
Come on guys! There’s no woman’s work or man’s work just hard work. Get on with it so that everyone can benefit.
January 16, 2015 at 12:28
Can’t believe they do think that way even under those conditions. My inner self was fighting when I read what that poor girl all had to do. And that boy doing nothing but complain.
Maybe the camp administration should do something about that. But I guess these are all men as well…
I have a question: Do these men beat up the women when they didn’t get their work done properly for what ever reason? I’m beginning to feel that way, since for themselves they picked the easiest job…
January 16, 2015 at 16:46
It took centuries (and we are still working on it) for our cultures to accept that there is no “women’s work/men’s work”. These refugees will not grasp the concept overnight. As I said, we still have men in our culture struggling with it. It will start with one man/boy getting up from sitting and talking and offering to pitch in.
January 25, 2015 at 21:48
And it seems to me that the refugees half-realize that there really isn’t anything for them to return to. To rebuild. My thoughts are, although they’re in a camp in a foreign nation, that clearly won’t go away why not organize and begin to transform it into a new official community of the new country.
As foreigners, I expect that it will not be easy at all but what other choice do they really have? If there is nothing to return to, restart elsewhere. Even if there is substandard or no formal education in governance, economics and logistics, such is not needed to formulate some kind of plan among themselves, and begin negotiations with the surrounding communities and new government.
For the sake of all the hungry children, raped and tortured women, murdered and otherwise missing men and mere self-respect try.
January 16, 2015 at 19:20
I hit the “like” button not because I like it, but to acknowledge that I’ve read it. It’s heartbreaking. She’s beautiful, and I love the colorful clothing they wear against the landscape.
January 16, 2015 at 20:12
Thank you for sharing this untold story. What a sad reality and yet they show such patience and you can see the strength of will in their albeit weary faces. Duties are carried out as assigned and Nyaboth even smiles. The photography is stunning; the story very moving.
January 16, 2015 at 20:14
Wonderful ‘daily photo diary’ of a day in the life of this beautiful sixteen year-old.
January 16, 2015 at 22:37
Thank you for the background story. Many of us commenting are extremely lucky and have to be very thankful for what we have.
January 17, 2015 at 16:29
I can’t help but remember my time in Liberia when I read these posts. It took me a very long time to understand something about the life of the market women and their daughters: that while the men might be sitting in the palaver hut, drinking palm wine all day, the women held the power. Yes, they worked hard. Very hard. But they also earned money, and gained respect.
Again, life in the camp distorts any society, traditional or otherwise. But there are cultures in the world whose treatment of women isn’t just different from our western standards: it’s inhumane and evil.
We all know which societies those are.
January 20, 2015 at 05:58
It’s hard to envision 250,000 refugees in one camp. I can’t imagine it really. The concept that there are NO cattle to tend and yet there is still such a sharp division of labor isn’t lost on the women, is it? I really appreciate the glimpse you give of life in this camp. It’s not covered very well in mainstream American media…sadly.
January 24, 2015 at 19:14
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I think we should start realizing how blessed we really are & stop taking life for granted.. Savor everything you have, not everyone has it like you. Sad to think their are people out in the world living like this. We need to remind ourselves occasionally. I am thankful for having such a great life. I regret for ever taking it all for granted.
January 24, 2015 at 19:22
Thank you for the story. As depressing as it is, I enjoy reading these types of things and learning new stories.
May they find stability.
January 24, 2015 at 19:39
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January 24, 2015 at 20:03
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January 31, 2015 at 00:12
Ale jak to?
January 24, 2015 at 20:22
In different regions there`s different customs which i respect the diversity of this world however does it make it right? NO. Any human with logic can see the lack of gratitude and lack of respect her brother has for her.
January 24, 2015 at 20:27
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January 24, 2015 at 21:10
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Its just 7 o’clock
January 24, 2015 at 21:26
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January 24, 2015 at 21:30
Awesome work,that’s way I love Word food program.
January 24, 2015 at 22:12
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January 24, 2015 at 22:13
It just goes to show how different peoples lives can be.
January 24, 2015 at 22:16
This has really opened my eyes❤️
January 24, 2015 at 22:56
Pretty sad for the guys, not liking that she gets to do all the hard work, but at the end of the day who gets a sense of satisfaction and sleeps well? She’s the stronger person, my love goes out to her.
January 24, 2015 at 23:20
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January 25, 2015 at 01:00
God is good all thanks to HIM for HIS Mercy towards them. That is a Blessing. Be Blessed Everyone, Mtetar
January 25, 2015 at 01:32
Reblogged this on jermeliainmotion and commented:
Very intriguing thought I should share with others how people around the world enjoy life with the simplest things.
January 25, 2015 at 01:48
Hope they find stability and justice..
January 25, 2015 at 01:52
Alot sensitization has to be done to explain to people that some cultural norms are passing off as domestic abuse. Men need to learm that helping around isnt limited to ones gender but its part of family responsibility
January 25, 2015 at 01:58
I know it’s cultural but that’s so upsetting !
Your photos are amazing.
January 25, 2015 at 02:56
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January 25, 2015 at 03:41
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‘ Men’s work: sitting and talking ‘
January 25, 2015 at 04:12
Thank you posting this.
In the past, when I had more freedom in life; I use to work in the community in South Central LA, which was a long time ago for me. I’ve always thought of helping others but have always been hesitate in doing so because of all the corruption in the world and not knowing where the money is actually going.
January 25, 2015 at 18:21
Yes, corruption is always a problem one has to deal with. But I think we can’t stop trying anyway. Thanks for your comment, Jon.
January 26, 2015 at 07:56
The half of it is men in power w/ military ISIS backgrounds involved with 💻 viruses.
January 25, 2015 at 04:42
This just saddens my heart to read that the women’s work is placed upon this 16 year old girl who should be attending school and enjoying her life, but this is what happens in other cultures so who am i to pass judgement.
January 25, 2015 at 04:56
Beautiful photos and beautiful writing! Thank you for sharing. Our daily problems are nowhere near comparison to what Nyaboth deals with everyday. Gratitude…
January 25, 2015 at 05:51
Oh myy… Thank you for the story, may they find stability.
January 25, 2015 at 05:54
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A Day in the Life
January 25, 2015 at 05:59
Theres no such thing as man work and woman work ! The sooner we understand that the better it will be for the future of this planet
January 25, 2015 at 06:01
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January 25, 2015 at 06:13
Beautifully observed. I feel a bit sad after reading this fot numerous reasons; the ease with which all except their faith (for better or worse) and the fact that there is so very little I can do to change her (and all the other quarter of a million people’s) situation.
January 25, 2015 at 06:25
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January 25, 2015 at 07:42
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January 25, 2015 at 07:47
I really feel for this girl. No one can ever truly know what she goes through because nothing is the same. But reading about the men just made me irritated.
January 25, 2015 at 09:17
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January 25, 2015 at 10:48
To feel happiness in our lives feels almost like a sin when we watch and read about the stories of people in alarming situations, who are unable to get proper medication, food or clothing. Western democracies respond with killing drones, with racism, and by not allowing them to escape their condition, because they would be uneducated immigrants who cannot do any kind of job.
But the question is what can we do? I know this post was not about normative analysis of the current world problems, but the question arises anyway. It makes me sad that the reasons for the conflict in Sudan and many other places lies in our oil dependency, in religion and its subsequent fanaticism, and in our inability to speak with a voice that would be heard by our leaders.
January 25, 2015 at 11:28
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January 25, 2015 at 11:37
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Well written story…these women are champions!
January 25, 2015 at 11:39
Wow what a heartbreaking story and what an amazing young women. We really should be thankful for our, in comparison luxurious lifestyles. What bravery, courage and sheer determination she shows…..
January 25, 2015 at 11:41
Thank you for sharing this wonderful story.
January 25, 2015 at 11:43
Reblogged this on Lonely Travel and commented:
Reality if refugees outside of the world hat we are living now. We travel not only to see the beautiful part of the world, but also share our experiences of people who are living on this earth.
The writer has given a very good introduction of how a refugee camp is.
January 25, 2015 at 12:09
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January 25, 2015 at 13:28
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Why not be grateful for your life?
January 25, 2015 at 13:33
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January 25, 2015 at 13:38
Its amazing how different things can be.
January 25, 2015 at 14:26
Great pictures and post
January 25, 2015 at 14:43
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January 25, 2015 at 15:19
Reblogged this on Skin Deep ~ Mandy Moran and commented:
This is a heartbreaking account of a sixteen old girls daily trials in Gambia.
We should feel humbled to live the life we do in comparison.
Beautifully told “Untold Stories”
January 25, 2015 at 16:11
It’s really a tragic story our leaders need to take practical actions to eliminate poverty from the world.
January 25, 2015 at 16:54
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January 25, 2015 at 17:59
She’s amazing.
January 25, 2015 at 18:54
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January 25, 2015 at 20:20
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Seriously, we are yet to see such many. Its really a shame for us.
January 25, 2015 at 20:27
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January 26, 2015 at 00:15
I can’t like this, but I am thankful for your for writing and publishing it.
January 26, 2015 at 01:39
Beautiful shots. Great photo essay! Enjoyed!
January 26, 2015 at 02:06
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January 26, 2015 at 05:52
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January 26, 2015 at 06:45
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January 26, 2015 at 07:10
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January 26, 2015 at 07:19
Such a hard life they are suffering right now. Thank you for sharing this untold story.
January 26, 2015 at 07:39
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I hit the “like” button in this story not because I LIKE it, I just want to acknowledge that this story needs to be told. It saddens my heart to see people live in such a hard condition like this, yet there are no escape from poverty and unsound customs for them. Reblog this if you truly care.
January 26, 2015 at 07:52
@seebluelee that concept is 😡 women’s work Vs. Mens work. 😍 your voice
January 26, 2015 at 07:59
Thank you for sharing this story. I admire this young woman and what she is doing to take care of her family. Even in such hardship she manages to keep her will. My parents went through the same thing in Asia after the communists prevailed, so this story hits home.
January 26, 2015 at 08:34
Not so good orientation, at the end of the day she will still pass the orientation to her children that these are women’s work and those are men’s work. The obvious reality of life.
January 26, 2015 at 08:57
In most communities, women are the beast if burden. They do all the hard work and the men just sit. Only a few men will get to work or help with what is termed as women’s work. Trust me being a girl child is really hard
January 26, 2015 at 09:32
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Working on the same trend of women today, here is a story of a refugee woman in Tierkidi. When people question why feminists stand up against the inequality of women in this world, this is a perfect depiction of why.
January 26, 2015 at 10:08
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January 26, 2015 at 10:13
I’ll need time view articles to made such comment
January 26, 2015 at 10:16
Are you looking for just ,the thumb up or down, like or dislike?
January 26, 2015 at 12:58
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January 26, 2015 at 14:14
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January 26, 2015 at 14:54
Thank you for sharing this untold story. Photography was nice.
January 26, 2015 at 15:13
often wonder what it takes in the human spirit to be a survivor in a refugee camp, endure the constant threats and bombings that Israel endures or clean up after a devasting tsunami, earth quake or some other natural phenoma
January 26, 2015 at 15:15
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January 26, 2015 at 16:50
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I see the poor in America on a daily basis. They have to do the same thing; sell this to afford to eat. But, I am glad to see you tell other’s Untold Stories. God bless them and you.
January 26, 2015 at 17:31
Thank-you for sharing this story. They teach us a lesson in strength and determination.
January 26, 2015 at 18:45
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January 26, 2015 at 20:00
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January 26, 2015 at 21:09
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January 26, 2015 at 21:56
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January 26, 2015 at 23:49
What an amazing journey this must be, and i say amazing but i actually mean inspiring. The difference in the ways of life throughout the world is a wonder of its own. Can’t even begin to imagine, but still i want more.
Thank you for these amazing pictures.
January 27, 2015 at 00:54
beautiful pictures.
January 27, 2015 at 03:41
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January 27, 2015 at 03:55
Showing no sign of bitterness, Nyaboth, and all the other women in her situation, makes me think that the peace she lives from within not only makes her the stronger person, but a person that radiates goodness even in the most difficult times. thank you both for your valuable work.
January 27, 2015 at 04:13
Americans often have an ethnocentric perception of other cultures and find it difficult to understand the practices and beliefs. Personally I can apperciate the difference displayed aroubd the world. I would assume this comes from studying other cultures and travel. It really opens your mind outside of the box of American culture. After reading this post I laughed because it showed are similaritues …men are same here as they are they. ; )
January 27, 2015 at 06:12
I really do enjoy reading the comments it regards to “poverty” “happier lifestyle” –
I think the what’s lovely about this post is the simplicity of just show and tell. Yes, they do live with less income, I’m not dismissing that, but what I really see here it people can live without some of the Urban/Rural North American non-essentials and I think that’s hard for some of us to accept as regular way of living.
I wonder what other people from different parts of the world think about how we live?
January 27, 2015 at 06:13
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Worlds realities….
January 27, 2015 at 09:20
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January 27, 2015 at 09:46
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the sorry of a re is hurting
January 27, 2015 at 11:22
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January 27, 2015 at 12:18
This is awesome! Great writing… Check out my blog at db4three
January 27, 2015 at 13:05
That is exactly how it is…..am one of them
January 27, 2015 at 13:06
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January 27, 2015 at 14:11
CRAZY 😀 😀 😀 This is awesome
January 27, 2015 at 14:44
Wow, this was a touching story. So the men sit around all day and the women are doing all the work. Don’t they realize things would go faster if everyone works as one. The pictures are beautiful in spite of everything from what I see they look happy. This makes me realize I need to count my blessings.
January 27, 2015 at 15:28
Instead of viewing Nyaboth’s situation as a tragedy (I am a 16 year old girl myself), can we instead think of solutions to the problem? Explain to Sudanese men the practical advantages to assisting the women with their work, explain that they could benefit from slightly altering their chores to meet their new situation. Find a balance between cultural sensitivity and pragmatic action in order to resolve this gender equality issue.
January 27, 2015 at 16:33
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January 27, 2015 at 22:22
Thank you for bringing this reality to all of our attention.
January 27, 2015 at 22:41
tht roght
January 28, 2015 at 02:36
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January 28, 2015 at 03:18
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Compare this to a day in your life…
January 28, 2015 at 04:12
Wow! This makes my heart ache especially when we sit back and complain about our well nourished lives. Thanks for sharing.
January 28, 2015 at 06:20
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January 28, 2015 at 06:20
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January 28, 2015 at 06:33
Really made me cry ! I hope every person on earth never goes through such tough life. Everyone should have freedom and respect.
January 28, 2015 at 07:38
This kind of culture is even present in villages near my place. I hate this culture 😡
January 28, 2015 at 07:43
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January 28, 2015 at 07:44
I am from africa and i know what this press is about.
January 28, 2015 at 10:31
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January 28, 2015 at 15:37
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January 28, 2015 at 17:00
Crazy
January 28, 2015 at 17:03
I hope they find stability soon
January 28, 2015 at 18:00
Ahh, this breaks my heart… I really hope there will be more equality soon.
January 28, 2015 at 18:08
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January 28, 2015 at 18:32
I am counting my blessings.
January 28, 2015 at 19:05
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January 28, 2015 at 20:17
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are we really doing any hard work ?
January 28, 2015 at 20:41
Really interesting 🙂 🙂
January 28, 2015 at 22:33
In the U.S, we truly do take things for granted. I volunteer for a lot of refugee organizations here in the U.S., and hear stories such as this all the time. Thank you for sharing. Heartbreaking.
January 28, 2015 at 22:34
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Heartbreaking.
January 28, 2015 at 23:28
The joy she must get from taking care of her family. Perhaps her thoughts are I am so strong and do all of this on my own to satisfy the needs of my family.
January 29, 2015 at 00:02
Who let the dogs out? http://www.progress4u.wordpress.com
January 29, 2015 at 00:16
Reblogged this on thetinkertimes and commented:
When we start worrying about our own lives, sometimes it helps to look at a day in the life of someone else. I’m worried about money to take my son to the hospital – she’s worried about spending one dollar. Perspective.
January 29, 2015 at 00:17
Ďæřë əļåűw çarê þóķa kaťťa totta. Møhaþosã tôpavoña isßta tē. Ğotram møn! 😉
January 29, 2015 at 01:53
Perspective…You can tell where people are mentally in their reaction to this story. Forget the displacement, hunger,discomfort, fear and danger of being a refugee in another land.
Don’t even consider the family’s mental state from having experienced, or witnessed God only knows what horrors.
What about daily survival ??
Let’s concentrate on gender roles, and bash the ancient cultures that have been and will continue long after this one is forgotten.
REALLY ??!!
January 29, 2015 at 03:00
And she won’t eat until everyone else has been fed – that is the way of life for many women like Nyaboth. I don’t buy the cultural difference argument – that was used too long for female genital mutilation. This is just plain wrong.
January 29, 2015 at 06:01
Such a sobering story. It is hard to imagine such social injustice, on both the refugee front as well as the family front. It leaves one wondering how it came to be this way and if it always was. And why?
January 29, 2015 at 07:52
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January 29, 2015 at 09:38
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January 29, 2015 at 17:59
It’ll get better,this is not sad its reality of wwhat is going on in hats going on in the world.
January 29, 2015 at 17:59
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January 29, 2015 at 18:07
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January 29, 2015 at 18:28
We should learn to be more thankful with our lives….
January 29, 2015 at 19:31
Beautiful post. I have visited Zambia. African stories make my heart melt.
January 29, 2015 at 20:22
I like it but i feel the men should do more.
January 29, 2015 at 20:23
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Interesting read. How do you feel about the male roles in this tribe ?
January 30, 2015 at 01:23
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January 30, 2015 at 04:17
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January 30, 2015 at 05:25
these kinds of stories make me want to count my blessings and be great-full for the little things in life .. thanks for putting this story up really touching
January 30, 2015 at 08:14
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January 30, 2015 at 17:15
interesting
January 30, 2015 at 21:25
This is very sad
January 30, 2015 at 23:24
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Really detailed and effective description of a day in the life of an African girl. This text was really interesting and intriguing.
January 31, 2015 at 00:11
Thank you for telling the stories a eye opener 😄😄
January 31, 2015 at 00:13
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January 31, 2015 at 06:41
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January 31, 2015 at 17:33
Thanks for sharing the story. Who knew that the old saying ” A woman’s work is never done” is a reality in every sense. The spirit and sole of women around the world continue to amaze me!
January 31, 2015 at 18:15
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February 1, 2015 at 04:53
Another insightful post from you, Øystein and Otto. It’s certainly a tough life, and I can only admire the girl’s courage and strength.
February 1, 2015 at 13:13
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February 1, 2015 at 16:09
hope they have a better life
February 1, 2015 at 20:27
OK where does this happen?? Like seriously, the Kenya I leave in today is a lot more civilized,tho we still struggle with some of these traditions, we are headed somewhere
February 1, 2015 at 22:49
Incredible series of shots ~ and with such a story to show. Stunning and sad.
February 1, 2015 at 23:12
Im so thankful for my life full of opportunities. This story is the daily reality for many men and women and even children. It is a tragedy, and so it should not be! https://pinni888.wordpress.com/
February 2, 2015 at 00:38
We say this is tragic, horrible, and many other words. We ask “Why are the men not helping?” , “Why does she do all this work, with no help?” But, this is the life she knows. If you asked her if her life was horrible, she would probably say no. We judge her life according to ours. I am not saying that this is any way to live, I am just saying that this is what she is accustomed to, Look at our lives, we have become spoiled by technology. I could go on and on but I think you get my point
February 2, 2015 at 19:27
I guess traditions have been passed on for so many years, they don’t think about it anymore… so sad
February 3, 2015 at 01:13
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February 3, 2015 at 08:24
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February 3, 2015 at 14:44
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An awesome blog I came across, an window to the third world
February 3, 2015 at 23:30
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February 4, 2015 at 00:20
To think that we complain about minor inconveniences….sigh…when you read something like this you are embarrased to make a fuss at minor inconveniences.
February 4, 2015 at 02:28
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February 4, 2015 at 13:28
It’s very difficult to understand African customs if you are not one. There are duties assigned to gender and thay is all they know. But that is where education is important because it brings enlightenment and ignorance is left behind. We should all be fighting for the education of the Girl child, that only our their saving grace.
February 4, 2015 at 16:38
I think the way they do things over there is different from what Americans think. The live in a community where it is expected that the women work and do household chores. I believe the men are the breadwinners. So living in a community where that happens is a collective is expected. The families needs is placed above the individuals need.
Perhaps her brother is the head of the household.
February 4, 2015 at 18:38
Makes you feel silly for complaining about minor day to day discomforts.
February 4, 2015 at 19:19
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I believe it is time to start appreciate the things that we have! Even if are small things, for some people are worth a fortune! For example some people don’t have food, or water or clothes even a place to stay…why are we so stubborn and selfish? why dont we appreciate the little things? at the end of the day who are we to judge others?…some people don’t deserve what they have, they don’t feel like by having some basic things like water and food! Some people pray for the things you have…don’t waste that gift you’ve been given…it’s a shame..
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February 6, 2015 at 03:00
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February 6, 2015 at 18:39
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February 6, 2015 at 23:48
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February 7, 2015 at 23:38
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February 7, 2015 at 23:53
Nyaboth is a respecting,old model girl who is such a hardworker.Now that’s what i call HARDWORKING AND RESPECT
February 8, 2015 at 13:44
Thank you. For sharing this story.
February 8, 2015 at 21:49
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February 9, 2015 at 00:47
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February 9, 2015 at 02:31
Thou shall not bitch about your job/life
February 9, 2015 at 06:31
Thank you for the great reminder of how easy we have it here in the USA.
February 9, 2015 at 20:36
This is so nice! I hope you can visit my blog too!
February 10, 2015 at 02:42
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February 10, 2015 at 10:14
Really sad what people have to go through for no fault of their own. Breaks my heart to read.
February 10, 2015 at 19:52
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February 13, 2015 at 00:58
The African society has oftenly victimized women, they do it all our ladies they blamed for lack of children in a marriage as they carry fire wood on their back and many of our society believe a man never goes wrong.
February 13, 2015 at 10:12
Wow. What incredible circumstances and what an incredible young woman!
February 14, 2015 at 12:31
Fantastic post – This happens a lot and could have easily be Nigeria where I am from. Men is the head of the household and certain household chores meant for women even if men had to sit around all day. I used to live it – shameful and more so that even the educated women still think this is acceptable, little wonder how the state of our country is today.
February 15, 2015 at 08:31
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February 18, 2015 at 11:37
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Just stumbled into a sweet reminder of why we do what we do, why we spend time and savings to train and train again, why we have to bear witness, and hold on to hope.
February 22, 2015 at 13:23
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February 24, 2015 at 03:36
very interesting..
February 24, 2015 at 05:17
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February 26, 2015 at 10:36
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March 9, 2015 at 09:20
What a strong young woman. Makes you stop and think about what you have and how you could’ve easily been born into a different lifestyle such as what these kids are living. Hope they receive education, it could be their saving grace. Great article.
March 14, 2015 at 04:19
I felt like slapping that useless brother
March 15, 2015 at 11:00
Beautiful pictures and a really interesting read.
March 30, 2015 at 05:29
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April 4, 2015 at 02:13
It is so sad, but this is real. Stories like these should be shared among school aged children in the US so they learn to appreciate what they have and complain less for having to attend school. Thank you for sharing. Wow! Simply heartbreaking, but this is still common in many cultures.
April 4, 2015 at 17:45
A heartrending story and one that should be retold until we all do something about it.
April 4, 2015 at 17:46
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Our lives are so comfortable that we rarely think of others.
April 9, 2015 at 16:59
I feel guilty..it’s really hard and sad
April 12, 2015 at 15:31
Great and confronting writing. Both Sudan’s are difficult places to get your mind around, and life in a refugee camp is unimaginable but this writing helps catch that life, and promote empathy.
Sudan is going to hold an election this week- a sham election no doubt, but understanding the politics of the county goes part way to understanding what is happening. Here is our take, please read and share:http://global-elections.org/2015/04/06/sudan-elections-a-primer/
April 13, 2015 at 12:18
Wow, and we just go along on our day to day lives having no idea about different cultures and their customs. Their custom has not allowed them to change or think of better ways even when they were uprooted from their homeland. Reblogging
April 13, 2015 at 12:27
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This is a heartbreakingly sad situation and most of the world has moved on and forgotten. We just go along on our day to day lives having no idea about different cultures and their customs. Their custom has not allowed them to change or think of better ways even when they were uprooted from their homeland.
So often we get caught up with the little day to day things that we think are so important but in the long run, are they? Does it matter if you get to the store 10 minutes later when you have crazy traffic or they don’t have your favorite item at the store? How about the stupid squabble you had with someone recently and now have animosity or discontent in your heart? Live life to the fullest and with Joy and Love. Peace and Blessings~
April 19, 2015 at 14:54
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April 24, 2015 at 01:41
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Here this is a must read i feel so soft for some of these people
April 26, 2015 at 09:16
This is fascinating to me and sad that these people are struggling so much. It remind me to be thankful for what we have. Even though in the US we are considered poor, compared to this we are wealthy.
April 28, 2015 at 01:59
Beautifully told story. Thank you for giving voice to these stories.
May 6, 2015 at 21:56
I agree really beautifully told indeed.
July 9, 2015 at 08:03
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